You're going to be sad and that's absolutely okay. You're going to want to scream and punch things. Do it. Let out every anger you ever had. If you feel like crying, sit on the floor for a while cry until you feel good. Listen to the songs that make you sink to your feet. Write about everything that makes you angry about a person in a paper and crumble it. Every person that has hurt you, ignored you or made you cry just write the reason on a paper and crumble it or burn it. Throw your hairbrush at the wall. If that reduces your pain do it hundred times. Do it until it makes you feel alive again. You're going to be sad. You will want to hurt yourself. Don't you dare do it. Don't hurt yourself for someone else. Listen to songs that make you wanna dance at night in your pyjamas. Sit and watch cartoons like a 2year old kid. Stand in front of the mirror after doing everything that makes you feel calm and say *I'm worth it*. Say it until you feel alive again. It's okay. You're going to be sad alot more times in your life. You'll get through it. Be calm. It's a strom right now but everything will be beautiful later.
I don’t think there’s any number of movies, songs, videos, or books that describe how bad a friendship breakup just hurts you. We’ve all seen relationship breakups because that’s the most talked about and people think that’s the worst that could ever happen. But just imagine you meet a person on the daily, you share your life with them, you go through ups and downs with, explore new places, they become a part of your routine and somehow one day it all ends. This one breakup leads to so many changed behavior and thoughts. This one person is someone who gave the word “friendship” a new meaning and you won’t find it in anyone else. You constantly think about the time when it went all wrong. You are upset, angry, and anxious because they were a crucial part and suddenly there’s a big hole in your life. It’s a bitter feeling of letting go of them because you thought of them as your ride or die. You have come to end with the fact that you both are going on different paths now and that you wo...
Never thought healing would be so easy. Very well explained to pull out the anxieties.
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