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It's so hard to unlove. Even the slightest thought of unloving the person you love threatens us. It would take us our life if we want to unlove a person. But then some people  are meant to be unloved but then you are so much attached to them that going away makes you sad. That person gives you so many memories that every time you miss them you just lay down, close your eyes and go back to the time you had that person. Unloving becomes hard when you've spend most of your day time with them and then they suddenly vanish and you have nothing but their touch and some beautiful memories. Their smell, their voice, their habits, their behaviour, their hugs everything is so comforting that you barely can unlove that person. Even if we try a thousand times to unlove that person we've one reason to love them again. So many times we feel like texting that person but circumstances are so bad that you ain't suppose to text that person. You've so much of that person in your heart that unloving becomes a hard process. If unloving was as easy as switching of your TV, rn we would have unloved thousands of people we don't like. But life isn't that easy, it makes it hard for us to unlove people and leaves us with scares that are filled with memories. So love everyone but not more than yourself.

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  1. Many spelling mistakes ! Work on that gal ! Nice try though .

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